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But even if I didn't I think there are a lot of other things a woman can read to determine if he's interested. Coming on too strong means a potential relationship is more likely to go boom and then bust. Guy i dated before him took 7 dates to even put his arm around me.
In any case, I'd say just let it come naturally. Hi, I'm a guy, 22, and met a girl, 23 for five times now. We were walking by the river Thames and it was the perfect opportunity but it just didn't happen.
- I keep that part of my life separate from my family life. I keep thinking about kissing you.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. He's a very, very busy man working full time and going to grad school full time, so I am very flattered that he even has time to go out with me every other week or so. I respect his ambition and I think we may have a lot in common. I have been flirty with him, and he reciprocates, but only a little. So it makes me wonder if he's really interested in me, because he has only given me hugs, and not so much as even a peck on the cheek. Am I being insecure, should I try to make the first move, or should I just toss this to the wind? I really don't want to ruin the chemistry we do have, or run him off, because I've never met anyone like him - but it's that awkward last 5 minutes before parting ways that I hate... What do I do? I say he definately likes, but if I was that into someone and I wanted to kiss them and they hadn't initiated a kiss then I probably would make the 1st move. I'll give you one suggsestion if at the end of your 5th date there is still no kissing, before he walks away tell him - I met this very handsome, perfect gentlemen and we've been on 5 dates should I wait for him to kiss me or kiss him 1st. Hopefully he's not clueless and knows that you are talking about him. I'm sure you'll get some interesting responses to this post OP, I wouldn't worry what the norm is, anticipation can be good providing it doesn't drag on forever. He might be nervous, so gently guide him in the direction of finding out. Ask him if hes attracted to you? I think we can assume that since he has asked for a 5th date with you that he is somewhat interested, right? What do I do? Geez, it's not that hard. You like him, take it to the next level. You act like women don't have the right to like someone and pursue them. Obviously, if he's taking you on a fifth date he likes you, why are you insecure about it? Oh yeah, that's right, you expect the guys to make all the moves. What if the the guy you meet, the guy you have chemistry with, the guy who behaves like noone you ever met before, is just a shy guy? Would you rather lose him because you felt he wasn't making the moves, or would you take the risk and make the moves yourself?... Oh, perhaps you think because you're a female that life is supposed to land in your laps. Some guys are shy and some guys probably worry about putting a woman off by trying to kiss her too early. If he won't let you kiss him after 5 dates, he's either not interested, gay, or a candidate for the priesthood. You say this will be your 5th date, and you see him approx every other week-that's 10 weeks for him to decide if he wants to kiss you. But, I'm still single... WTH do I know?? It may be that he is the type that may take the time to 'warm up' to someone before they express themselves physically. Some value kisses and physical contact as more than a biological function. We met weekly for dinner on Wednesdays. After three months he 'positioned' himself for 'the kiss', and I had to kiss him 1st and he ended up being a LTR. Worst case scenario: you go to the friend zone unscathed Good Luck 4th Date, Still No Kiss... What is the Norm? IME this situation is usually the busy person simply trying to fulfill social needs. One is because that way is less stressful for them. Just escape from the high stress to something simple. So treat it simply. Second they tend to ignore anything that could be interpreted as sexual advances. Because they want the other person to do it first. If the other person does it first then it's okay to take off the brakes and go waaaaay to fast, hopefully into a FWB situation, because the other person does it first, the other person takes the responsibility. So you know it wasn't all about sex with me, so I am still a good person that doesn't use people. It just happened to last short term and be very gratifying to me and exactly what I needed and wanted. But it's not my fault it ended, or isn't going any farther than FWB,, because you came onto me sexually first. Also the norm is to date more than 4 times in 2. When he picks you up for your 5th date; greet him with a hello kiss on the cheek. At the end of your date if he hasn't made any effort , kiss him on the lips! Some times women do have to take the initiative. Not all people operate in the same fashion.............. Apollodorus A word of advice: Anyone who hasn't kissed you by the end of the 1st date is not interested in you. My SO and I didn't kiss until our 3rd date either. I'm not even sure it would of happened then if I hadn't leaned over to hug him. He was a little shy and because of previously being hurt, I was being some what aloof. It all worked out though, we're still happily together after 2 years. OP, this guy may be shy too and nothing wrong with you kissing him first. Just run the course. You don't need to do anything. Just enjoy the dates. If a moment comes up then follow it. Hello- just have fun and get to know each other. He has a ton going on and still makes time for you- that is HUGE. Just run the course. You don't need to do anything. Just enjoy the dates. If a moment comes up then follow it. Hello- just have fun and get to know each other. He has a ton going on and still makes time for you- that is HUGE. He likes you and is interested in you. A guy doesn't ask a woman out on 5 dates if he's not interested. My compliments on your patience. I would have bailed after the 3rd date if no kissing had happened. You're going to have to be a little more flirty, and just kiss him. Or tell him to kiss you. He's obviously very shy about such things. I'm notoriously slow to pick up 'that kind of interest' sometimes. Then again, there was one before her... And I took a lot of 'initiative' after. We talked a lot before then at work , but I'd also been cheated on by the one prior, so I was a bit 'gunshy' at the time...
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I'm moving on from this guy because I'm not looking for a piece and that's what it feels like now. I mean if it's something like sex I totally understand. Nothing wrong with not participating in it. But kudo's on being respectful and actually having some dialog with her about it. He ended emailing soon after today's fifth date still no kiss and said I seemed servile and guarded. Public are a bit like cilantro — not everybody likes them. Original post by Anonymous Yes, I will try to avoid large crowds the next time s we will see each other. Important is you continue to care for her and love her, prime do what a boyfriend should treat the girl. It all worked out though, we're still happily together after 2 years. But if you've told him by the 8th date simply that you do not believe in sex before marriage those exact words then you are heavily implying you expect certain behavior from him.